Now that Black Friday has passed, and the holiday season has begun, the hunt for the perfect gifts is on. Some love the thrill of the hunt, but others dread it. Will they like it? Did I forget someone? Did I spend too much or not enough? In the end, the holiday season ends up feeling more like a job, but without any of the benefits.

There is one solution, although it may seem a bit radical. Switch to selfless gift giving. By the time you’ve given, those worries you had will melt away. And you will likely end up feeling that you’ve received a gift in return.